May I suggest that unless you want to be a pilot so much that you can taste it you should forget it.
As for military or civil there is also no choice. One will teach you to fly (and scrub you unless you are pretty good and keep improving) while the other will teach you to execute checklists exactly as the company wants you to.
Sorry if that seems a bit blunt by I do feel it is true - and getting more so as the years go by.