Now that would have to be the most outstanding thing I've read in what? Years.........
On the one hand:
I find some of the comments on here breathtakingly ill informed and naive.
Then:
The main problem is social cultural. The one child policy has bred a generation of spoiled "emperors". Their parents naturally dote on them, and having the parents and often the extended family as well living in the same house lends itself to having a child being spoiled and never having to do anything for itself.
Criticizing others for their 'anecdotes' then posting a gold standard one of your own. Absolute bloody gold