Thing: whilst there is some truth in what you say things have got worse as overall numbers are reduced & harmony guidelines have been ignored. So the cumulative effect is to disenchant those who may have been doing the job for some time & it gets harder to cope with as family responsibilities for example change & increase. Partner starts to complain & the individual looks to leave or gets a divorce. Either way it leads to massive discontent & a steady outflow of expensively trained personnel which reduces the overall numbers etc.
Next you'll be saying, 'they volunteered so they should expect to get killed', as one hears so often from idiot civilians.