Good point Sasless about being nice.
In the cadets only came across one a-hole of an officer, a Flt Lt, at one time my squadron CO, who was more interested in himself and what he could get for himself rather than help the cadets. I left the cadets because this idiot was forever having a go at me for not attending every single parade. He just could not get his head round the fact that working shifts meant I was not able to do that.
Few months after I left I got a visit from some RAFP lads from Rudlow Manor. Appears he had some stuff nicked from a car following a breach of security and they wanted to know what he was like to work with etc. Think he might have tried to drag a couple of us down with him.