eyesup try not to let people get to you on here!
People on Pprune tend to be very passionate about flying and many have very strong views with regards to certain subjects.
I have found occasionally in the past that my questions antagonised people in the same way yours seem to be doing, like you I can't understand why, maybe people who have been flying for a while can't remember what it was like before they started, who knows?
Anyway, I'm sure everyone in their own way is trying to help, some just come across more helpful than others (no one in particular, I'm just generalising here), so whatever you do, don't lose faith, keep asking away until you have all the information you require to make an informed decision!