So you make a choice and things don't work out for you. As unfortunate as that is, you then think other people who made better or luckier choices should move aside and let you slot in above them? OK, but unfortunately the most desirable employers tend to have the biggest queues at the door. You want to join, guess where your place in the queue is going to be? Demeaning, degrading, and unfair? Those already in the queue don't think so. "I am alright Jack"? Maybe. How about "Dry your eyes Princess!"