As for me?
Day 4 at home, no pain relief required.
The rosé is now a sav blanc.
Re-learning to aim straight.
Uncomfortable but not painful during the sitting and standing evolutions, but getting better all the time.
Discomfort 'à la pointe'
while passing but also getting better quickly.
An uninterrupted 8 hours sleep, as opposed to 1.5 hours max, pre-op.
Finally, in spite only recent introduction of HoLEP, my pre and post operative reading and advice convinced me that I had made the correct decision. Independent advice, backed by data in the John Hopkins link in #27 above were enough to help me choose this course of action for the op.