Same here, flaps/gear are asked for and the confirmation of that call is the action, after the PM silently checked that the conditions are within limits for that command. No further callous needed. If a non-standard flap setting (2, 10, 25) is used one says so when asking for that setting.
Interesting thing about the speed call. There is no published limit in my outfit and it was trained from the first day that no call is necessary if corrective action is already taken. Interesting enough that leads to more calls "speed is checked" by the PF before any speed call was done by the PM.