Thank you jumpseatCAPT!
For both your response to my question and console. Looking back - perhaps my temper got the better of me for an instant. And there's also the fact that I am just beginning many things, one of which is posting to forums (for which most of the time I just am a observer) maybe I'm just not that experienced with taking criticism. I'll definitely reflect on that.
Now if only people were more like jumpseatCAPT (including myself) perhaps there'd be less meaningless arguments.