This guy knows who he is.
There is technique in being a controller. That is being precise on instruction and the masterful identification of who the controller is. The latter being most important.
Too many times in this region when there is a lot of traffic there is a breakdown of the above.
But when there is a controller who holds it together, uses nous, and is professional in his/her manner, then everyone appreciates it. Even when a lot of the guys he/she is dealing with are dumbasses.
So go for it Oz guy! Rise above and show who is the ultimate controller!
The alternative is to wallow in your sad-tower and pay out on everyone below you. As you have done since you got here.
Including if your mother in-law has moved into your digs- Permanently!
If you don't improve she is coming to stay
halas