I too left the Herc force about one year ago, 23 years of service and enjoyed nearly all of it. Great people, job, places visited and what a laugh! Left on a high after a good final tour.
It's good to discuss the FRI question. I was selected for the lower stage 1 FRI back in 2003 (get this) while I was still in pilot training...
How does that make sense! There was no way I was going to walk back then.
Stoppers is right, it is the structure and management that needs to adapt and change.
An old crusty Sqn Ldr ALM (30 Sqn) once told me why he decided to leave early before his 55 pt, he said "it's like being nibbled to death by ducks".
I chose to leave at a time when it suited me, it was a difficult decision, manning only hindered me and the transition to a job outside takes hard work and persistence but it can be very rewarding. Most guys and gals serving would knock the socks off your average civvie. Think about it, if it suits; then go for it and you have very good chances of a successful career outside.