Cali, from my experience, my mates who used SWMP as a handshake ended up with cracker chasing b____s or the like who gold dig (discretely). Some are at the point of too late and no return, unfortunate cases too many to name. Ask your left/right seat.
What you radiate is what you attract. You are still too young, in any sense, after a few months, your desperation beer will get old. Good luck mate.
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