Well I guess that's how it is everywhere. Young and hopeful wannabes walking in laughing thinking life is a bed of roses. Older and wiser ones who have experienced being screwed are more negative and pessimistic. The youngsters want no part being with the dreary old men since they don't want their lovely bubble dream world popped. The oldies are just annoyed listening to the youngsters naive words and stupidity and their refusal to protect themselves.
I have been on both sides of the coin and in several different situations and there really is no reconciliation for both parties
. Just let the hopeful go through with it and learn the hard way growing up to be grumpy old men. It's not like the naive will enjoy listening to you or thank you for bursting their bubble. So why bother creating friction and discomfort... Just take whatever you want out of any situation and live life the way you want it. What happens to the others other really doesn't affect you