Many times we have heard stories of people who have been able to keep personal traits such as alcoholism, drug use or criminal activity hidden from family, friends and colleagues for extended periods of time. When asked, folks say, "He was such a nice man", or "He was quiet and kept to himself, never caused any trouble".
I don't know why this would be any different. Let's face it, it's not like he's going to be regaling people with stories of his off duty diddling. In fact, given the social stigma that comes with such behaviour, he will have worked very hard to hide it. So how exactly would people know?
Last edited by J.O.; 3rd Sep 2013 at 10:33.