Yeah like setting the tone of the day as a commander and not having the worry of redundancy looming. If you have your life in order then money helps - it's a bonus. If you're morally bankrupt or trying to keep a wife that only wants things her way happy then forget the money and forget life. If your wife won't follow you or is going to leave you for being abroad then 'mag to grid' - get rid! Nothing worse than a partner that's a hangar on, dependent, unmotivated drip that can't organise their own time and life. And this issue is a major problem for pilots all over the world - magnified because we're away a bit.