I can see how some pilots here believe being agressive to avert an unnecessary incident or accident is a sign of being over controlling in a two pilot cockpit. I think both pilots should make sure the flight is safe, not just one and the other just agree.
Our recent SFO example states my case. I don't care what OO thinks of my standards of taking care of business but flying hundreds of people in an airplane is serious business and must be dealt with accordingly. Blaming the glide slope being out or the autothrottle didn't work as you thought it should or being 30 knots slow is not an excuse.
