Blimey - that's a bit negative!
Good luck with it - better to have tried and failed than to have never tried at all...
Been to Siljan air park last year, and back there again next week.
Also have a friend with a place on 'Atlantic Air Park" - which is particularly well planned in that the houses are set some way away from the strip.
Still, if I wanted to park my plane at my house (and I do, but can't) - I would just buy a house and the field (+/- 500m long, grassy and flat) next to it...
Cheers, Sam.