...well you know what my suggestion would be. But I guess you have to talk it over with your partner too. Mine is extremely supportive and wants me to be happy in my work (which is fantastic). Unfortunately she doesn't share my enthusiasm for flying and just see's it as a way to get from A to B.
Anyway, whatever you decide good luck. Just think about how you're going to feel in another ten years if you don't though. Whoops sorry.. that's going to do you no good at all. Good luck. Whatever!
Nigel