"You want me to look my best for you, don't you - Or do you no longer care?"
Yep. You're married.
Yesteday, in conversation with the lady with whom I am going on holiday, there was further discussion about luggage. So I playfully pointed out that I could ditch anything of hers that did not fit weight or size in my case. She playfully pointed out that I would be Doing No Such Thing!!!