I've flown as a passenger 8 times with three different airlines and marvel at the skill to get a aircraft off the ground and in the air, while flying I love the feeling of it. Its just a awesome experience so I just want to get over my fear and least have a go myself to know once and for all if I'm happy to just be a passenger or actually fly a aircraft myself.
Thanks for the help everyone, I've found a local gliding club so will be making enquires for a flight next month.