It is unfortunate that some people have had bad experiences interacting with the local people and culture. It is most interesting and amusing to compare these stories with my own experience.
To FJ and others who share similar sentiments, have you ever wondered why your feelings are so much different from that of the large number of foreigners living in HK? Next time you decide to dismiss women of any specific nationality as shallow and indifferent or whatever else you said, be mindful that there are plenty of others who know and have met people of that same nationality belonging to the rest of the spectrum. In their eyes, you would come across as ignorant, parochial and laughable. If your distorted views of HK women upset you and lead you to think you made a mistake in coming to live here, then the rest of us pity you.
But then, perhaps you want to hold on to that opinion in order to fuel your exaggerated view of yourselves. The better natured people would wish that your misery would end soon and that you can move on to somewhere you enjoy yourselves more. But there are some who quietly enjoy the thought of you being stuck in this place for a long time.