Flyer Jazz,
Don't you see that you are the root of the problem.
As the pilots of the flight we are the team leaders, it is up to us to make the effort. You cannot expect a 22 year old CA to make the running when it comes to converstaion, unless of course she is after something more than just a friendly chat whilst the other pilot is in the loo.
Of course though, no CA is going to want more than a friendly chat with a Neanderthal like you.
Our girls are fine. As with any profession from any culture there are good and bad, and you are clearly of the bad!
Now, shut up.