Nice rant.
As to your question-
What is a "military" pilot ? please guys explain to me....
A 'military" pilot is one who has only flown for a Government run, non commercial operation.
I have no doubt they are great at what they do.
What they HAVEN'T done is operate in an environment where making a profit is key to remaining in operation.
If you were recruiting for a commercial operation and had the choice, who would YOU choose?