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Commuting isn't sustainable long term at CX. You may be able to do it as a single SO on a compact roster for a while, but as soon as you upgrade or get a spouse it won't work. Believe me. What about if/when you have kids?
Living in a nearby Asian country can be tricky unless you marry one of the locals. I have friends who commute and the wheels are falling off their carts very quickly. Fatigue and relationship breakdowns are rife. You probably don't want to hear this but you are really trying to cram a round peg in a square hole. No offence.