Bear, while we have focussed on your particular activities at University we haven't mentioned what you did before University. Things like the DoE scheme, your time and activity in the ATC, the team sports and activities you undertook at school.
On the person you spoke with, RLO may have been the wrong title you picked. My daughter certainly visited universities and it may have been a wg cdr on a liaison visit to the university. That is certainly possible so that what you said is indeed true, sorry we missed that inference.
You may meet him again at Cranwell, on the other hand you may equally be in a different syndicate.
BTW, while my interview was decades ago, my training was not and my daughter even more recent, curiously only one question has been dropped (too difficult) and a couple substituted.