Koi,
Being a good listener, well travelled or having common sense in no way qualifies you to talk about behavioural genetics. Especially when using the consdescending undertones you do.
I very much doubt that you are a good listener. YOU have decided you are a good listener. There is a big difference. A conversation between two people involving you would be all about you. Of that i am certain. Just like you wasted no time in highlighting your flying (and other) experiences in your posts here. Because hey, anyone who dares to question or disagree with Koi will be talked into submission because "I've brokered billion dollar arms deals" "I've got 18,000hours", me, me, me, me, me.
There's a spare village near me in desperate need, i can put a word in for you if you want!