Okay, I acknowledge airports differ and require different skills for example INN and JFK perhaps I struggle with the sentiment (not the op's) because a pilot has flown in through various airports that gives him the right to think he can behave however he wants and speak however he wants. It doesn't. No crew doubts that pilots are skilled and intelligent colleagues but its how that is used in the team that is in discussion.
Also just so you know, whilst I have never controlled a jet, I have flown through Africa and Asia. I found particularly in Africa, you should be culturally aware and have your wits about you, but behaviour breeds behaviour in any country/culture/group/person.