Dragonlight,
Some time ago I saw an add about ifr training software online, written by the same chaps who sell the interview stuff. If I'm allowed to mention it it's cockpitweb. If the mods don't want it mentioned they can delete at will.
Never tried the software as I used Rant a lot for my IR. But i have been looking for something to "fly" IFR as well (other than MSFS)and reading the website it looks like a simple joystick will suffice as the program auto trims the aircraft for you so you can concentrate on flying, timing,tracking etc. Also comes with a structured syllabus with lessons and an ifr book. Don't know if the authors are UK pilots or not.
Good luck and enjoy the course.