who you want to spend the majority of your time, alone in a hotel or with your family?
So why did you accept a job that based you far away from home? You have no one but yourself to blame for this one.
Admirable that you want to "enlighten" people about the downsides of the job, but **NEWSFLASH** any remotely intelligent person would have considered this before accepting the job and, more relevantly, long before
£10Ks up against the wall for a job that they find "boring".