I pointed out the shortcomings of being an airline pilot. That is a job that is not easy to line up with being a good mother.
Equally, I wonder how easy it is to line up with being a good father?
Hannah, you are young, the world is truly your oyster. Work hard, very hard, and make your own opportunities. Seek advice, but make your own decisions. Don't be swayed by other people's expectations. Don't be afraid to go after what you want. Good luck to you