If the question is 'Would YOU join up today' (my capitals), then why complain when people state why they wouldn't? We can only judge (honestly) by reference to our own experiences and beliefs.
If you don't WANT to see what folks other than you feel about the questions, then stay off the thread or the forum.
Each of us has the right to answer the question honestly, dishonestly, emotionally, or whatever suits - that's why it's a forum.