FAStoat
A little care with presentation such as paragraphs and indents would have made your posts far more readable.
Me, I skimmed them and gave up.
I have been flying in to Duxford for nearly 20 years and have got nothing but courtesy from the ATCers.
I might go so far as to suggest that, having lined up the Harvard had a problem and couldn't go immediately.
It was not the ATCer's fault that you got no apology from the pilot.
So quit bleating on here and as Alan says,ring the Duxford number.
Cusco