it doesn't matter what the VFR can see they will be controlled away from this
in class G you won't be controlled away from anything.. if you don't want to take deconfliction advice, you can just say so and do your own thing.
Likewise, aircraft on a traffic or basic service can be asked to stick to certain limits to help deconflicting from other traffic, but the pilots are totally entitled to say no and do their own thing. Everybody can do their own thing in class G, within the limits of legality!! ATC is not sky cops