SASless
The way I read your letter, it seems to me it is less about OPSEC and more about the increasing untenable retrograde anti gay attitude that is regrettably still prevalent in the US Military.
As a straight Reserve member of the Canadian Forces, an organization that recognized gay rights over 15 years ago with zero effect on operational effectiveness I think like the institutional racism against blacks that existed 50 years ago, the Neanderthals in the Military will eventually be left behind as civil society demand they align themselves with what the what the majority have decided is now an unacceptable prejudice