iainpoll I am the only one who has mentioned the "boring sad people, who can only talk about sex & booze". Therefore I apologise if I have offended anyone.
I am broad minded & not in the least perturbed by discussions of sex & booze. It is just that IMHO, there are many more interesting things in life to discuss.
I also follow your advice No 1. If I go into any chat room, & find it not to my liking, then I don't bother going there again.
BUT, I will defend to the death, the right of the "boring sad people", to carry on using that chat room, 24/7 if they wish, to discuss whatever amuses them!