The Saitek Cyborg 3D Gold USB has been an excellent all rounder for me.
I recently found the force feed back version of the above at a 'Managers clearout' counter, and after downloading the XP driver it too is excellent but is very tempremental with FS2002 running 767 PIC. (If you engage the autopilot the stick goes beserk!)
In CFS3 it loses all functions if any adjustments are made away from full force and function. But in IL-2 it is just magic!
Happy gaming!