Smudger
"When" you make that mistake is a bit late. Why not learn from this saga and instead of saying it can't happen, when it has, twice, try thinking.
IMHO the fact that you started your flying career in the military some 40 years ago reinforces Shytehawks comments.........
And if you have a difference of opinion with your FO (big assumption you are a Capt), do you withdraw into your corner of the flightdeck in a hissy fit then too?