I think quite a few would be envious of yr current situation to some degree but the G/F thingy??.....as mentioned here lose the G/F their only good for two things,one of which I can't recall right now
Also go out into a busy street & the first girl you bump into going round a blind corner('cause luv is blind) buy here a house & get it out of yr system early
As for the flying, well only you know what's best for you, no one can be you but if you need to be told what to do then you don't belong in a plane as a driver.
Wmk2