Honestly, you've already broken rule one in aviation. Get the job of your dreams first THEN get the girl of your dreams. If you get the girl first dream job just won't happen, life gets in the way... "I want to move back to NZ"
If this is the girl you're going to marry... just stick with a job like you currently have - one that lets you fly for fun on weekends.
If you like we'll even tell you things like "It's not as much fun when it's your job" to make you feel better and suggest things like aerobatics, formation and tailwheel... which few of us get to do as a job.