Well I feel I owe it to the forum to reply to tell you all that I have made a positive step (but subtle) in changing instructors. In retrospect I get the impression that my original instructor basically prefers to teach more experienced pilots and not beginners.
Anyway, I have flown with others at the club and intend to continue to do so. My confidence has increased as a result of this which has renewed my inspiration and motivation. It wouldn't have stopped me from persuing a career in aviation however, but it still feels good when you get your flying right. I did an SRA (in poor visibility) the other day which was tremendous. Maybe just me but I found it very satisfying to get it correct in line with ATC. Ok no big deal to anybody experienced I suppose but I'm low hours.
Thanks to all your useful input and views.