For starters, stop wasting your time online. Sure it is a handy research tool and may just net you a job if you are lucky. Best option is to get out there and talk to the operators. Get in the car, visit all the airports and flying clubs in the area (and out of it). And talk to those doing the job. If they dont have a position, chances are they might know somewhere that does. Volunteer to do a week or 2 work experience, even if it doesnt get you a job it looks good on the resume and can possibly net you some good references.
This of course is mainly if you are going for GA. Getting in with the big operators from scratch...well i cant really help you there. But im sure it will still be all about contacts. Get out there and make some.
Good luck