Another stupid question for you, then...
So, if you love it so much, why aren't you back home with your brothers?
Some of the stuff you write, I have the idea you dislike we oyingbos, hence this stupid question. It reads as if I have about as much business commenting on Nigeria as you do, given that we both seem to be expats!
I used to find it amusing to talk to people who had spent less time in Nigeria than I had, despite their having been born there. Not to say that I knew much about the place compared to them, no! About as far as I got was definitely knowing how little I knew about it, which put me far ahead of most of my fellow expats, at least in my view.
Seriously, to the original poster, give Nigeria a try. Three months won't kill you. Probably.