Old fella
I don't think they are "real men" either.
What do you mean by a real man? There are many gay people who fight for their country who I consider real men. There are many gay people who run industries across the globe who show guts and determination, who I consider real men. There are many gay people who are fathers, who are also real men. The list goes on.I wonder if you fit into any of these categories.
Fortunately, homophobia is now reduced to a trickle and only the remaining 'insecure beings' exist.
Never a truer word spoken!