So the lessons we have learned from this?
There is no black and white, just shades of gray.
Don't judge your fellow aviators, unless ou yourself are perfect.
But for the grace of god go I.
If it can happen, it probably will.
The regs are written in other peoples blood.
Learn to say no.
When being rushed, slow down.
Experience is often gained the hard way.
Denys, I wish you well with your career. If I see you around I'll be happy to buy you a beer. Dont give up and when questioned in future interviews about this, don't rationalize or make excuses. Admit you were low time, inexperienced and made the wrong decision. And most importantly you have learned from it. I'd hire you over another clean skin. I know you wont make the same mistake again. I couldn't guarantee the clean skin wouldn't.
I'd also keep in touch with Ged. He's a good guy and while most probably pretty pissed at the whole affair, is more than happy to give you a second chance.