Two equally interesting threads running here.
For the first I would just say that there is a female pilot i used to serve with that i would far rather have with me in an escape and evasion scenario than, for example, any crab wuss I have met, and for the second, Who else remembers the US F-15 Pilot called Fifi that displayed at Kokside Airshow in Belgium a few years ago. Now she was charming. Bit of an attitude though