Just for a bit of balance, I should like to point out that I think the unfairness of all this is the worst bit.
If A calls B a shirtlifter, then A gets a "no coffee, no biscuits" interview.
If B calls A a Homophobe, he is then encouraged to take it further and get the Snowdrops involved.
Why is it only the deviants, rather than the majority, who are allowed to express an opinion?
This also applies in other areas. Can you imagine the uproar if anyone in the Met tried to start a "White Police Officers Association, with the stated aim of furthering the careers of White Police Officers?