Thought you would like an update, I spoke to my friend, who has been on the web page and is amazed by the 100% backing to tell someone. However, she is concerned, and is going to do something about it. To answer a queston earlier regarding how she knows he is still up 3 to 4 hrs before report, she returns to the same destination on many different occasions, and knows many of the bar staf well, who have even commented, and on a couple of occasions, there has been a couple of crew, one on a ealy flight, including him, and another doing the later, therefore staying up, and seeing him. She has mentioned it to one very senior Capt, but he laughed it off, and said not to worry her pretty head about it. That comment oviously put her off saying anything to anyone else, and its a bit of an airline joke, look whos in the bar again!!!!!.
So whos best to talk to, should she go through cabin services, and let them deal with it, or stright to fleet capt, or a union rep. Its not an easy one.
I must also aggree with comments made earlier, I have been flying for 7 years now, and never seen it before, so if any non aviation people are reading this, then please do not worry, it is a very rear situation indeed