Ghengis - as a former karate-ka I found that martial artists made the best lovers, so maybe there is a connection between martial and marital arts after all?
mad_jock - I can only speak from carrying passengers but I've generally found that when I offer "control" to passengers (followed through, and usually yoke only), women are much more gentle and try to feel what happens, while men tend to be more aggressive and shove without waiting to see what the effects are. Not always the case, but it supports what you're saying.
Pilot-DAR - I have my own (non-t.p.) thoughts regarding your charts, but I'll wait for your explanation to see if I'm even remotely close!
Ref the OP, bear in mind that he's still only 17. It's obvious that he is still quite immature so cut him some slack. He will learn and grow both as a pilot and as a human being. He's had a reasonable roasting already, but his learning, both in aviation and in life, will take more than a few threads and a few weeks on PPRuNe.