What's wrong with a dress code FFS? What do all the flip flop and torn jeans hooligans do if they take the wife/gf to a restaurant or club that has a code? Tell the bouncer/maitre d' to eff off? No, I bet they dress accordingly. If they're invited to a wedding, do they turn up in beach shorts and T shirts, saying 'How I dress has no bearing on my good wishes for the happy couple.' Nah! For goodness sake I wish you so-called professionals would grow up and stop behaving like petulant teenagers.