Doesn't really help us SLFs. If I see the name on a name tag I will use it. If not then I may say "Excuse me miss (or sir)." How do I refer to you though? For instance I may say to one: "The other ?? said....." Is it the other FA, the other flight attendant, the other steward/stewardess? (The other cabin crew member is too long and I know I can say "your colleague" but that is missing the point). In over 40 years as SLF I have got on well with ALL members of cabin crew (except one who said "If you don't like it then phone Richard Branson" before she walked away - and it was only a very minor complaint I made) so I am really asking what is the best generic term which accepted by ALL crew from ALL airlines?